Last month my daughter had a school project. Coloured paper, glue, ice cream sticks, cotton balls for some reason. The cotton balls I still don’t understand.
The project wasn’t hard. Finding everything at 8:45 at night was a different matter.
Our dining table looked like the inside of a craft shop after a small earthquake. My daughter was insisting a specific green sheet had vanished from the universe. My wife was going through every drawer. I was doing that thing where you open the same drawer twice and call it helping.
The green sheet turned up eventually. Nobody is sure from where.
Project got done. My daughter wrote her name on it and went to watch TV.
I started clearing the table and I noticed something. Actually I noticed it only because I stopped moving for a second. My wife hadn’t sat down once in the last hour and a half. Not once. She’d found the missing stuff, cut things, stuck things, helped with spelling, quietly packed half the school bag for the next morning and somehow also remembered that our daughter needed to bring a library book the following day.
My contribution was locating a pair of scissors. I was quite proud of this at the time.
The Question That Came From Nowhere
A few days after that, my daughter came home telling me about a story her teacher had read in class. Something about a mother. A happy mother’s day story, she said, though it wasn’t anywhere near Mother’s Day. Teachers do that, tell those stories whenever they feel like it. I’ve noticed these happy mother’s day story types tend to make the rounds in classrooms all year, not just in May.
She was eating murukku while talking. Crumbs going directly onto the sofa in clear violation of a rule we’ve been enforcing for three years.
“Why are all maa stories so emotional?” she asked.
I said I didn’t know.
She kept looking at me. Children do this. They ask you something and then wait like you’ve been studying for this moment your whole life. Like there’s a correct answer and you have it somewhere.
So I said the first thing that came to my head. “Maybe because people only really think about their mothers properly once in a while. And when they do, it all adds up.”
She chewed on that. Literally and otherwise.
Then she asked if penguins have knees.
I spent the next twenty minutes looking this up. Yes, they do. She had lost interest in penguins by the time I found the answer.
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The Project Night, Revisited
Later that evening I brought the project back up. I asked her if she remembered it.
She nodded. “The one with the green paper.”
“That was stressful,” she said.
Only a child can describe something someone else did as stressful for herself. I didn’t say this out loud.
I asked her who remembered to put the library book in the bag.
She thought. “Mumma.”
Who reminded you about the project in the first place?
“Mumma.”
Who found the glue?
“Mumma.”
Who packed your snack box the next morning?
Long pause. “…Mumma.”
She could see where I was going. I could see her seeing it. That expression they make when an adult is clearly building towards something. Usually they go quiet and wait for it to be over.
But I wasn’t actually trying to make a point. I’d started thinking about my own mother.
What I Remember, Which Isn’t Everything
When people talk about a mother’s sacrifice, there’s always this idea of one big moment. Something dramatic. A sacrifice story that changes everything overnight. A short story about a mother giving up something huge so her child can have something better.
My memories are all smaller than that.
My mother used to eat after everyone else. I never thought about it. It was just what happened. If there were three sweets and four people, she’d say she didn’t feel like one. I didn’t question this for years.
If I was sick she stayed up. I took this completely for granted.
If she was sick… honestly I don’t remember what happened. That sounds bad. I think it is a little bad. But I also think a lot of people reading this know exactly what I mean. When you’re a child, your mother is just there. Mom is here. Of course she’s here. She’s always here. There’s no Hindi word for that feeling exactly but mom is here, maa hai, carries a whole weight that you only feel later when you translate it backwards into everything it actually meant.
She’s like the ceiling fan. The dining table. The electricity. You only notice those things when they stop working.
I’m not sure I ever told my mother any of this while she could still hear it properly. That’s the thing about heart touching short stories on mother that I used to read and roll my eyes at when I was young. Now I read them differently.
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Mummy Ki Kahani
There’s a reason mummy ki kahani gets told so many times. In so many forms. A short story about mother and child that your dadi told, your teacher told, your neighbour aunty cried through at some family gathering. The details change. A glass of milk. A torn school uniform. A long bus journey. A hospital room.
But the middle is always the same. Someone doing something small, without making anything of it, and someone else not noticing until much later.
My daughter is seven. She’s at the age where she registers things but doesn’t file them away yet. She sees her mother with kids stuff all around her, managing seventeen things at once, and it just looks like the normal state of the world. Which to her, it is. I was the same.
I think that’s actually fine. I don’t think children are supposed to be walking around in a constant state of gratitude. That sounds exhausting for everyone. But maybe once in a while, a story helps. Not because it teaches a lesson. Just because it shows them something they’ve been looking at without seeing.
That night, my daughter went to her mother and hugged her. No speech. No occasion. Then immediately asked for ice cream tomorrow.
Which is exactly right, if you ask me. Children shouldn’t stay emotional for long. That’s our job.
After That
I’ve been thinking about what makes a maa story actually stay with you. The ones I remember from growing up, the ones that became those heart touching short stories on mother that teachers read out in classrooms, they were never about grand gestures. They were always about someone doing what needed doing, quietly, and someone else finally paying attention.
A mother with kids is never doing one thing at a time. She’s doing eight things and tracking four more and she’ll deny all of it if you thank her for it. That’s a mother’s sacrifice, in most families I know. Not one big moment. Hundreds of small ones that never get counted.
Maybe that’s why these stories keep getting told. Someone has to count them.
Places like EuroKids Preschool probably have versions of this conversation happening all the time. A teacher reads something out. A child goes home and asks an inconvenient question. An adult has to actually think about the answer. Parents exploring Eurokids Preschool Admission often look for these kinds of early learning environments where stories naturally spark curiosity, empathy, and meaningful conversations beyond the classroom.
That seems like a reasonable way for things to work.
My daughter’s green paper project is filed away in a cupboard somewhere. My wife knows exactly where.
I had to ask.
